kylemittskus
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Starting Thursday night, SWMBO and I are going to start sleep training Emerson via the Furber method. It's going to be horrible, I fear, but well worth it in the end if it works. I'm going to have a really hard time...
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kylemittskus
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cortot20 wrote:I had one full night of yelling and then its been wonderful. I hope its as easy for you. I get 2-3 wakeups during the early evening 9-11pm and 4-6am range but its easily taken care of by helping him find his pacifier. Because it ended up being so easy we felt we could have done it much earlier and that he was working us over for food he didn't really need.
The feedings are less of an issue. We have her down to once a night and that's going to end simultaneously with the real problem -- sleeping in her own crib and not waking up every 2 hours. This is all theoretical, of course. She won't sleep through the night. She hasn't once. Fingers crossed she will after this.
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kylemittskus
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ThunderThighs wrote:Do you swaddle? If not, you might try it. They kinda like nice tight quarters so moving to a bigger crib is unsettling.
In son's day (20+ years ago), they told you to roll up a towel to put on each side of them. Doubt they do that anymore for fear of suffocation. Guess we wanted sturdy kids back then.
She used to love being swaddled. Maybe well try again when we start the training. It's going to suck so much. I'm going to have an anxiety attack all night. I have to keep reminding myself that it's worth it.
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kylemittskus
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cortot20 wrote:Does she cry or yell?
My son seemed to yell, which told me he's fine, just a creature of habit.
Both. And she is stubborn. SWMBO talked to a friend of a friend who did this with her daughter. The first night, she cried for 3 hours. That's what Em is going to do, I think.
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"Champagne is a very kind and friendly thing on a rainy night." -Isak Dinesen
"There are many ways to the recognition of truth; Burgundy is one of them." -Isak Dinesen
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Kyle, good luck with all of that! May your whole household get some good, uninterrupted sleep soon! 
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cortot20 wrote:Just plan for a sleepless weekend, and she may surprise you by giving you one nights trouble and then being so tired that she sleeps like a log the rest of the weekend. I took it upon myself to sleep train Mason and let my wife sleep with earplugs, turned off the baby monitor and just stayed up in the next room over from his room. Its really not so bad, you just give her back her pacifier or comfort her without a pickup at planned intervals and keep the brain occupied in between with something else.
That's our plan exactly except I think we're going up take turns. Did you do structured time intervals, allowing more time to pass each time you went in?
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Dilemma: Today is technically the last day that I have off for my flu excuse. I am so unsure of where I am regarding healing and going back to work. No fever or watery eyes or sneezing. I still have a nasty cough and stuffy head and my voice isn't all that strong--at least not for talking to a classroom full of 7th graders getting psyched for a vacation that starts at 2:25 on Friday. But, I really want to be back with my students! I want to be teaching them what they need to be learning--not just giving them somewhat related work. The district did not hire a sub who knows French to fill in for me, so generic work has been planned for most of the week! I hate that!
On the other hand, I don't want to have some sort of relapse or even develop pneumonia! ddeuddeg & I are preparing one of the 7-course food and wine pairing dinners this Saturday and then, Tuesday morning we are leaving for California for a little R&R and D&D!
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cortot20 wrote:Swaddling was helpful until about three months and then it seemed to have no effect. I personally love it, its tough to swaddle yourself though so I suggest having your wife help you. 
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MarkDaSpark wrote:Yes, we want both of you healthy for next week!!!
And it seems that if you are still coughing, they wouldn't want you around the kids.
So, I actually spoke with the doctor this afternoon and we decided to give me two more days off. Hopefully, more of the cough & head congestion will go away and then, hopefully, my voice will be back full force. And then, I'll just have two days to be in school before break. That should work. It shouldn't be too overly taxing.
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kylemittskus
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Cory, SWMBO wants to know how many nights it took for Mason to sleep through the night. Also, was he sleeping in bed with you two and then went to the crib? She's using people we know who have done this as a barometer. We're worried, like I'm sure every other parent is/was, that Em is the most stubborn baby in the world and that it will work for everyone else and not us.
"If drinking is bitter, change yourself to wine." -Rainer Maria Rilke
"Champagne is a very kind and friendly thing on a rainy night." -Isak Dinesen
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kylemittskus
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Sparky, time2testit/redhead11, Java (ha!), Tim, and any other So Cal folks I'm forgetting about, please check in at the gathering thread. We have a tentative date set.
"If drinking is bitter, change yourself to wine." -Rainer Maria Rilke
"Champagne is a very kind and friendly thing on a rainy night." -Isak Dinesen
"There are many ways to the recognition of truth; Burgundy is one of them." -Isak Dinesen