bhodilee
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bahwm wrote:Anybody got any 36 hour days that they can loan me? Or, any extra sleep? I went to a class tonight (from 4:30 - 7), sponsored by our Teachers' Center. It was on autism. I thought it would be a good idea, since I have a student who is autistic. Part 2 is tomorrow. It was definitely worth my time and gave me some new and fresh insights. I plan on sharing some of the handouts with my aide. Finished dinner and soon, I will have to get baking the Pan de los Muertos (Bread of the Dead) for my Life Skills Spanish class! I have a really nice sweet bread recipe that is a hit every time! 
let me guess. Incredibly smart academically, painful to watch socially, but so self absorbed in his own world that he's nigh on oblivious to his lack of social skills. Probably Is incredibly literal, and can't read body language. On the plus side is brutally honest, will do whatever you ask as long as you are hyper specific. Am I close?
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bahwm
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bhodilee wrote:let me guess. Incredibly smart academically, painful to watch socially, but so self absorbed in his own world that he's nigh on oblivious to his lack of social skills. Probably Is incredibly literal, and can't read body language. On the plus side is brutally honest, will do whatever you ask as long as you are hyper specific. Am I close?
You are very close. Is this your son?
Seriously. I am really loving this class. I have realized that I must be hyper specific with them. I think this child reacts most when another student is in the room. There is a lot of intolerance from the second student, who thinks he has the right to call everyone else on their behaviors, when his behaviors are the ones that suck most. Unfortunately, he is sooooo low functioning that he feels he must overcompensate (and he's NOT the one who's autistic!) OK. Wasted enough time. Must go bake!
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bhodilee
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bahwm wrote:You are very close. Is this your son?
Seriously. I am really loving this class. I have realized that I must be hyper specific with them. I think this child reacts most when another student is in the room. There is a lot of intolerance from the second student, who thinks he has the right to call everyone else on their behaviors, when his behaviors are the ones that suck most. Unfortunately, he is sooooo low functioning that he feels he must overcompensate (and he's NOT the one who's autistic!) OK. Wasted enough time. Must go bake! 
yep, that'd be my kid. Smartest person I know, math wizard. Even the math teacher's are amazed. When he's 21 we're taking down the casino.
zero awareness though. Its FASCINATING to watch. Also difficult for me since my first through ninth reactions are sarcasm. That doesn't work with him though, he always has to say, wait, is that sarcasm.
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– George Bernard Shaw, author (1856-1950)
coynedj
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bhodilee wrote:yep, that'd be my kid. Smartest person I know, math wizard. Even the math teacher's are amazed. When he's 21 we're taking down the casino.
zero awareness though. Its FASCINATING to watch. Also difficult for me since my first through ninth reactions are sarcasm. That doesn't work with him though, he always has to say, wait, is that sarcasm.
My son shares most of the traits you mention but, funny how these things work, he's incompetent at math. Language skills? Off the charts. Read Moby D_ick in the summer between 1st and 2nd grades. In two days. Tested at "post-secondary" level when he was 8 years old. Has a vocabulary that would put Ph.D's to shame. But I fear that he'll never work at anything but menial jobs.
Life is strange.
I started out on Burgundy but soon hit the harder stuff. Bob Dylan, Just Like Tom Thumb's Blues
How on earth did I get 7 QPs?
bhodilee
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cheron98 wrote:So let's recap where we stand, for my own sake.
Me - 2 TF bottles + 2 Graciano
HAK - 1
tenuki - 2
CAGrl - 3
klezman - 2/3
sanity - ??
Noted that if sanity can catch Jeff and get fixed up and klezman decides to go through her instead, I will happily keep the remaining two from the first case. If not, then I will likely get 3 bottles of Graciano to go with the overflow.
sake?
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– George Bernard Shaw, author (1856-1950)
bhodilee
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coynedj wrote:My son shares most of the traits you mention but, funny how these things work, he's incompetent at math. Language skills? Off the charts. Read Moby D_ick in the summer between 1st and 2nd grades. In two days. Tested at "post-secondary" level when he was 8 years old. Has a vocabulary that would put Ph.D's to shame. But I fear that he'll never work at anything but menial jobs.
Life is strange.
mine is just school. Math is best, but he's good at all of it. Just cannot function socially though
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kylemittskus
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cheron98 wrote:sake. one syllable.
Awesome response!
"If drinking is bitter, change yourself to wine." -Rainer Maria Rilke
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bhodilee
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morning, mourning, not a coincidence
"The power of accurate observation is commonly called cynicism by those who have not got it."
– George Bernard Shaw, author (1856-1950)
bhodilee
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cheron98 wrote:sake. one syllable.
*sad*
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bahwm
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Finally got into bed at 1:18 this morning after taking the bread out of the oven. They all came into my room asking if I baked the bread last night. Then, shouts of joy when I said that I had. Oh, the smiles on their faces after tasting the bread! They all wanted the recipe! Good thing I had copies made already! Carpe momentum! I made a second loaf for home. 
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inkycatz
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tiger7610 wrote:Can we have the recipe?
Please? 
I'm just hanging out, really.
bahwm
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tiger7610 wrote:Can we have the recipe?
Sure! I'll have to wait until I get home after a meeting tonight to post it. It is a yeast bread, but quite easy to work with. Oh, and mother, there is cinnamon and sugar on top!
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bahwm
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klezman wrote:Lemme guess....flour+water+yeast+salt+sugar/honey! +egg if challah or brioche +oil maybe. +cinnamon sugar for super extra tasty bread
What kind of bread is it?
Close. No honey or oil, but real butter!
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bhodilee
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chemvictim wrote:Get him into science or engineering. No social skills needed.
He should come work with me! We need smart people who are incredibly literal and can handle a bit of isolation on the job.
Its funny because I'm purposely steering him toward engineering for that exact reason. Not saying that ALL engineers suffer a god complex and have no discernible social skills, but the ones I work directly with do. I love proving an engineer wrong; apoplectic may be the best term.
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– George Bernard Shaw, author (1856-1950)
bhodilee
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So, come to find out the eldest is failing a course right now. Apparently, he hasn't bothered turning in any homework. Which pisses me off triple because A) he knows he's gonna get caught and in a Monster A-Go Go (1965) ton of trouble B) his IEP specifically states that if he's missing homework the teacher is to contact the parent through phone or email since the child goes to GREAT lengths (including forgery) to not give us homework slips C) it's in LOOK BEHIND YOU!ing Geography! I have a LOOK BEHIND YOU!ing MASTERS in Geography and he's failing it. Oh children. I love them.
Obviously all video games and the television are disappearing from his room today and the controllers for the Wii and PS2 are coming to work with me.
"The power of accurate observation is commonly called cynicism by those who have not got it."
– George Bernard Shaw, author (1856-1950)
bhodilee
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chemvictim wrote:A lack of social skills isn't a requirement for science or engineering, but it won't hold you back in those areas to the extent it will in some others. We're supposed to be weird.
That's why I always liked Geography. Jeans, tshirt, flip flops, crazy hair and beard? Oh that's right, he's a Geographer, we'll let that slide.
"The power of accurate observation is commonly called cynicism by those who have not got it."
– George Bernard Shaw, author (1856-1950)